Tuesday, March 24, 2009

The First Day of the Rest of Your Life?

Is Today the First Day of the Rest of Your LIfe?

Until we can move forward in a new way, we are entangled in the webs of the past.
Often these webs are unseen, yet felt in the ways we are trapped and unable to do something differently than we would like to be able to.

Would you like to have a great job or career, move into your life's purpose, enjoy what you have and what you are doing, dress differently, have a great partner, for example, and are just not quite making it, or not able, somehow to do this?
Come and find out how this can be done. Check out the 3 dimensional family mapping process of the Family Constellation Approach.
Here in St. Louis Missouri, on the first Friday mornings of the month, and the 3rd Monday evenings of the month, we explore how to break the cycles that inhibit us.
The next opportunity is Friday morning, april 3rd at First Congregational Church, UCC, 6501 Wydown Blvd., St. Louis, Mo. 63105

I am also available for phone consultations, and for workshops.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

The Healing Power of What Is

Today I had the opportunity to work with a bunch of young men in trouble. Most were filled with anger, resentment and shame. One such man was very brave. He came fact to face with a father who left him and the family when he was an infant. He was able to see him in a bigger light, and the shame and guilt his father felt at the death of a child born be fore him. HIs father couldn't face his guilt, and so had to leave the family, taking with him his oldest son. So this young man lost 2 brothers and a father at the same time. He looked at his dad with anger and longing, and was able to see him for the first time in a long time. And he could accept his father for who he was, and to accept what happened as true. And there he stood, unable to move any further.
Some might say that isn't enough. He was unable to have his father walk up to him and take him in his arms. But the bravery in just facing that man and seeing him was great.
Often seeing what is and accepting it is good enough! It opens us to the next movement instead of being locked into the past.

Opportunities for Constellations, a dimensional family mapping process:
Friday, March 6th at 9:00 a.m., and Monday, March 16th at 7:00 p.m.
Contact me for more information: gail@gailcloud.com; 314-995-9755